Opening gifts at the baby shower
Is it okay to not open them at the party and wait till later. I am extremely shy and dread this part of the function. I also, don’t want to make birthday parties about that so I make my kids open them after the party. With my first child 9 years ago, I remember dreading the whole shower because of that one moment you are in the spotlight expecting to open and give a response to each and everything in a rush. I would rather wait till later to be able to open them with my family and truly appreciate what was given and take my time at home.
Would this be considered rude?