Baby Shower Problem
My mother-in-law is throwing my baby shower. She told me to invite whoever I wanted so I invited a lot of people from out of town. She is now telling me that it will, most likely, be thrown at a restaurant; which would be fine, except she expects everyone to pay for their own food as well. That just doesn’t seem fair. Some people are driving 6 hours to come to my baby shower, and making them pay for gas, their own food, and a present seems very rude to me. My husband thinks I’m ungrateful of what his mother is trying to do; am I over reacting?