by: Anonymous

i think a new baby requires a new baby gift, not used items. If she’s a good friend, ask her if she’d like the used things and do it before the shower–then she’ll know what she still needs. Giving used things is a very nice gesture between friends–we all do it–but not as a shower gift.

by: Sonya

I think it’s perfectly fine, especially since you guys are good friends. I don’t think there is a need to buy a new gift in addition to giving her your old stuff. Seems like you know her personality well enough to decide if she will be okay with getting used, but in good condition stuff.